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Divorce

In the context of Alcoholics Anonymous, divorce is rarely viewed as an isolated event; rather, it is frequently described as a central component of the wreckage of the past. For many speakers, the dissolution of a marriage serves as a critical catalyst or a primary element in a perfect storm of loss—often coinciding with financial ruin, career failure, and health crises—that strips away the illusion of control and forces a confrontation with powerlessness. The core principles addressed in these tapes center on the necessity of total surrender and the rigorous application of the Twelve Steps. Recovery from the emotional fallout of divorce requires more than just sobriety; it demands a willingness to discard old ideas and relinquish self-will. A significant focus is placed on the arduous process of making amends, which allows the individual to move from a state of isolation and misplaced identity toward a profound sense of belonging and spiritual stability. Listeners can expect to hear raw, unvarnished accounts of the desperation that follows the collapse of a family unit and the subsequent journey toward healing. These tapes detail the transition from the wreckage of broken relationships to the discovery of a Higher Power. Speakers share how they navigated the trauma of divorce to realize that the principles required for sobriety are the same principles required for a good life. Ultimately, these narratives illustrate how the pain of loss can become a crucible for growth, leading to a renewed sense of self-worth and the ability to live fully in the present.

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Chris S.
No Effective Mental Defense — Had the House, the Kid, the Husband, and Drank the Champagne Anyway – Chris S.
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Jim W.
Nobody Asked What You Want to Do — We Asked What You’re Going to Do – Jim W.
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Pat R.
Four Through Nine on a Constant Loop — That’s All Step 10 Really Asks of You – Pat R.
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Josh H.
Relieve Me of the Bondage of Self — Thirty Seconds Every Morning That Changed Everything – Josh H.
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David J.
353 Cassette Tapes and Ramen Noodles — What Carrying the Message Looked Like in Year One – David J.
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Mary N.
Every Fear I Had at 11 Years Old Was Still Running My Life at 50 — Until AA Showed Me the Bondage of Self – Mary N.
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Shane H.
Steps 10 and 11 Aren’t a Test You Pass — They’re What I Do From the Moment I Wake Up – Shane H.
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Alan H.
46 Years Old with Zero Self-Assessment — Fourth Step Was a Brutal Introduction to Myself – Alan H.
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Russ M.
Not Forgiving Yourself Is Putting Yourself Above Higher Power — That’s What Kept Me Out Ten Years – Russ M.
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Sandy B.
Every Spiritual Book He Read Was His Ego Building a Higher Wall Between Him and Higher Power – Sandy R.
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Madeline P.
Physically Drunk but Never Mentally Drunk — Where an Alcoholic Woman Stops Being Able to Protect Herself – Madeline P.
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Kay S.
Never Had a Head-On Collision in My Life — I Always Hit Them in the Rear 🤦 – Kay S.
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Terri B.
Whole Commuter Bus Stood Up and Clapped When I Finally Got Off at My Stop 🤣 – Terri B.
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Steve F.
Prayed for Higher Power to Put Somebody Special in My Life and Got John — Guess I Should Have Been More Specific 🤦 – Steve F.
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Frank J.
If I Ever Locate My Inner Child I Will Choke Him Unconscious 🤣 – Frank J.
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Ajit S.
‘What Will They Say?’ — Built an Entire Personality Around a Question Nobody Was Actually Asking – Ajit S.
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Art S.
My Sponsor Broke the Twelve Steps Into Pairs and the Eighth Step Around My Ex-Wife Still Isn’t Done – Art S.
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Robbie W.
Don’t Tell Me What You Know: Why I Belong to an Action-Based Group – Robbie W.
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Ralph W.
Can I Just Drink Until I Need Glasses? – Ralph W.
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Julie H.
Alcoholism Is Not a Behavioral Problem: The Physical Allergy Explained – Julie H.
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Howard P.
Wiping Out the County Wheat Crop with a Prayer — That’s an Ego Problem – Howard P.
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Frannie S.
Amends Is a Change in Conduct, Not an Apology for Hurt Feelings – Frannie S.
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Bill White
A Painter, a Barber, and a Carpenter Walked Into the Bar — That Was All Higher Power Needed – Bill W.
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Joe F.
Halfway Through the Ninth Step the Promises Kicked In Exactly Like the Book Said They Would – Joe F.
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Matt J.
Art Cole Told Me It Sounds Like You Have a Problem With Living Matt – Matt J.
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