All Speakers › Grief and Loss

Grief and Loss

In the context of alcohol recovery, Grief and Loss are not merely emotional hurdles but critical catalysts for spiritual awakening. For many, the cycle of addiction is fueled by an inability to process the death of loved ones, the dissolution of marriages, or the loss of identity. These speaker tapes illustrate that true sobriety requires moving beyond the avoidance of pain toward a profound acceptance of life's impermanence. The core principles emphasized across these narratives are surrender and the relinquishing of self-will. By stopping the attempt to control external circumstances, the speaker finds a Higher Power to guide them through the mourning process, treating life not as a series of events to be managed, but as a river to be navigated. Listeners can expect raw, first-hand accounts of navigating the wreckage of the past, including the loss of parents, mentors, and physical health. These stories highlight the transition from isolation and performance to the support of a fellowship that holds the individual when they cannot hold themselves. Ultimately, these tapes demonstrate that while grief is inevitable, it becomes a crucible for growth, shifting the focus from personal lack to a heart-centered existence anchored in sobriety and service.

71 tapes

All Tapes

Shannon V.
Fourth Step with a Fourth Column — What Would Higher Power Have Me Do Instead – Shannon V.
★★★★★No ratings
George M.
Mark Fell Over Laughing at the Fifth Step Mountain I’d Made From a Molehill – George M.
★★★★★No ratings
Frank W.
Newcomers Aren’t Reading the Big Book — They’re Reading the Room – Frank W.
★★★★★No ratings
Meredith M.
‘Do You Want Temporary Sobriety?’ Is the Question That Got Me a Permanent Sponsor – Meredith M.
★★★★★No ratings
Kendall L.
Rigorous Honesty Means Telling the Truth for More Than Fifteen Minutes in a Row
★★★★★No ratings
Mike W.
Came to Believe in Stages — First in Treatment, Then in the Program, Then in a Higher Power of My Understanding – Mike W.
★★★★★No ratings
Patty P.
Stopping Drinking Is Not the Same as Getting Sober — a High Bottom Still Needs the Steps – Patty P.
★★★★★No ratings
Joyce P.
Belonging Is the Cure for the Ache No Bottle Could Ever Reach – Joyce P.
★★★★★No ratings
Siobhan W.
It Was Love at First Vomit — Schlitz Malt Liquor at Twelve 🫠 – Siobhan W.
★★★★★No ratings
Dawn H.
Old-School Sobriety Kept Me Alive When Wishy-Washy Suggestions Would Have Killed Me – Dawn H.
★★★★★No ratings
Liz B.
Attitude Plus Gratitude Will Equal Your Recovery — Liz Bailey at Forty-Six Years Sober – Liz B.
★★★★★No ratings
Sybil C.
You Might as Well Try to Incorporate a Sunset — California AA Before the Traditions Existed – Sybil C.
★★★★★No ratings
Lynn
Picking Men Like Rescue Dogs: Pathetic, Starving, and Dangerous – Lynn
★★★★★No ratings
Damon E.
Step 3 Is Not Tweaking — It Is Actor to Agent, Director to Channel – Damon E.
★★★★★No ratings
Pat Y.
Willingness as the Thing That Overrules Your Own Judgment When Your Judgment Is the Problem
★★★★★No ratings
Liz B.
I Got the Monkey Off My Back But the Circus Is Still Going On – Liz B.
★★★★★No ratings
Doug M.
My Relationship With Higher Power Cannot Be Taken From Me but I Can Give It Away – Doug M.
★★★★★No ratings
Don C.
A Moment of Clarity Is Grace — Action Is What Keeps You Sober – Don C.
★★★★★No ratings
Dick A.
The Twelve Traditions Are the Principles for Living With Other People and Nobody Told Me That for Twelve Years – Dick A.
★★★★★No ratings
Dennis N.
Self-Sponsorship as the Alcoholic’s Shortcut to the Next Blackout – Dennis N.
★★★★★No ratings
Carla R.
He Like Me Is Perhaps Spiritually Sick — Page 67 From the Witness Stand – Carla R.
★★★★★No ratings
John C.
The Two Dangers to the Fellowship Are Personalities Ahead of Principles and Complacency – John C.
★★★★★No ratings
Katie P.
Alcohol Didn’t Cause My Alcoholism — It Treated It – Katie P.
★★★★★No ratings
Bob D.
The Ism Is the I — I Separate Myself and Call It Being Different – Bob D.
★★★★★No ratings
Jay P.
I Can’t, He Can, I’ll Let Him — and the Amen Doesn’t Come Until Step 7 – Jay P.
★★★★★No ratings
1 2 3