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Character Defects

In the context of Alcoholics Anonymous, character defects are the ingrained behavioral patterns and psychological barriers that sustain the cycle of addiction. These tapes illustrate that alcoholism is rarely just about the substance; it is often driven by internal deficits such as an insatiable need for external validation, profound self-consciousness, and a pervasive sense of being less than others. The core principles discussed center on the necessity of internal inventory and the rigorous application of the 12 Steps. Speakers emphasize that while sobriety begins with surrender, lasting recovery requires the active removal of defects like selfishness, resentment, and ego. This process involves moving from a state of self-centeredness toward a life of service and spiritual connection, recognizing that the desire to control one's narrative is a primary obstacle to growth. Listeners can expect raw, unfiltered accounts of the consequences of these defects, including stories of deceit, theft, and the emotional turmoil of trying to fit in. These narratives provide a roadmap for the difficult but necessary work of self-examination. By hearing how others confronted their own immoral attitudes and ego-driven behaviors, listeners gain a deeper understanding of how to transition from the isolation of the alcoholic mind to the freedom found in a shared fellowship and a Higher Power. These recordings serve as a testament to the fact that recovery is a daily reprieve achieved through honest action and the willingness to change one's fundamental nature.

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Larry T.
Self-Centeredness and the Cost of the Alcoholic Ego – Larry T.
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Keith L.
Keith L Step Study – Part 2 – Keith L.
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Sandy B.
The Difference Between Asking and Humbly Asking – Sandy B.
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Dick M.
Sponsorship Without the Thinking – Dick M.
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Russell S.
Steps 8-9 Amends – He’s Only Here to Give a Spiritual MRI – Russell S.
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Mark
Mark on Steps 4 and 5 — Removing Spiritual Blocks and the Phenomenon of Craving
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Jim W.
Surrendering the Need to Understand Why the Program Works
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Charlie J.
Joe and Charlie on the Big Book Process from Step 5 Through Step 8
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Randy
The Spiritual Axiom of First Things First
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Dave
Dave P. and Polly P. on Tradition 2 and the Myth of 50-50 Relationships
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Sandy B.
Sandy B. on Powerlessness, Character Defects, and the Fourth Step Inventory
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Sandy B.
Sandy B. on Step 4, the Five-Column Inventory, and Personality Change — Part 10 of 13
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Sandy B.
The Bondage of Self and the Illusion of Success
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Sandy B.
Why the Fifth Step Is the Threshold of Awakening
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Fr K.
Fr K. – The Cunning Baffling Power of Church Wine – 2005
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Myers R.
Big Book Workshop – Myers R. – New England Weekend – 2020
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Rick H.
Step 6 — Ready for Change – Rick H. – Wilson House Big Book Workshop Retreat – 2024
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Sue N.
Tradition 1 – Sue N. – New England Big Book Workshop Weekend – 2020
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Matt T.
Step 6 — Ready for Change – Matt T. – New England Big Book Workshop Weekend – 2020
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Sarah M.
Step 6 — Ready for Change – Sarah M. – Wilson House Big Book Workshop Retreat – 2025
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Rick H.
Step 4 — Moral Inventory – Rick H. – Wilson House Big Book Workshop Retreat – 2024
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Rick H.
Rick H. – Steps 10-12 Maintenance – Power In The Pen – 2024
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Sarah M.
Sarah M. – Steps 6-7 Defects – The Danger Of Thinking Your Way Out – 2025
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Sarah A.
Sarah A. – Step 1 – The First Word Is We – 2025
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Roger B.
Roger B. – Steps 10-12 – Practicing the Presence of a Higher Power – 2016
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