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Amends

In Alcoholics Anonymous, the process of making amends is a critical pillar of long-term sobriety, representing the transition from the wreckage of active addiction to a life of integrity. As highlighted in these speaker tapes, amends are not merely apologies but are an essential part of the structured work of the 12 Steps. A core principle emphasized is the necessity of direct action; recovery requires that amends be made directly to the harmed party rather than through a proxy. Listeners will hear raw, honest accounts of the liar and cheat mentality and the humbling realization that self-will is bankrupt. These tapes detail the journey of confronting one's past and the courage required to face those who were wronged. By moving away from a need for external validation and attention, speakers describe how the act of making amends clears the path for true connection and service. Expect to hear narratives of profound personal wreckage—ranging from professional failures to broken family ties—and the spiritual liberation that comes from taking full accountability. Ultimately, these recordings illustrate that making amends is a vital step in transforming from a person of isolation into a useful member of society, ensuring that recovery remains a daily, active choice.

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Rodger L.
The Connection That No Therapist Could Give Him – Rodger L.
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Polly P.
Polly P. on the Spiritual Malady, Home Groups, and the Love of Fellowship
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Bob O.
Self-Will and the Lie That We Are Like Other People – Bob O.
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Eloy P.
Eloy P. on Resentment, the Big Book, and the 12th Step
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John A.
Into Action and the Decision to Stop Procrastinating – John A.
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Howard P.
Low Self-Esteem and the Entanglement of the Past – Howard P.
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Gene D.
Gene D. at the Dog Retreat – 1986
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Steve L.
Low Self-Esteem and the Wall of Insulation Between Him and the World – Steve L.
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Mike L.
Putting a Number on the Pain – Mike L.
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Gary B.
Making Amends Without Taking a Beating – Gary B.
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Rory M.
The Bondage of Self and the Delusion of Managing Well – Rory M.
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Mike L.
The Ego Must Be Broken Before Willingness Begins – Mike L.
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Kent C.
Step 6 and the Room for Improvement – Kent C.
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Phil C.
Maintaining a Fit Spiritual Condition to Stay Sober – Phil C.
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Bob J.
Step 6 and the Man Who Said He’ll Never Be Entirely Ready – Bob S Jr
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Sharon B.
Into Action and the Way She Acted Her Way Into Right Living – Sharon B.
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Chris C.
The Fourth Column and the Cure for Resentment – Chris C.
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Tom F.
The Magnetic Pull of a Man with a Solution – Tom F.
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Karen L.
The Difference Between Going to Meetings and Working a Program – Karen L.
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Mike L.
The 10th Step Recycling Process – Mike L.
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Sharon C.
Big Book Writing and the Lists She Kept in a Spiral Book – Sharon C.
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Candice M.
Why a Searching and Fearless Moral Inventory Is Not a Sermon – Candice M.
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Sandy B.
Big Book Chapter 6 — Into Action, Amends, and the Daily Reprieve – Sandy B.
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Johnnie H.
Stopping the Festering Through the Act of Direct Amends – Johnnie H.
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Tom I.
Tom I. ( 3 of 7 ) Mens Fall Retreat in Vancouver ( 9 18 10 ) AA Speaker Tom I Mens Fall Retreat – Part 3 – Sandy B.
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