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Bondage of Self

The Bondage of Self is a critical concept in Alcoholics Anonymous, representing the internal prison of self-centeredness, fear, and ego that sustains the cycle of addiction. In these speaker tapes, the bondage of self is identified not merely as a symptom, but as the root cause of the alcoholic's suffering. It is the state of being trapped by one's own defective reasoning, resentment, and the illusion of control. The core principles discussed revolve around the transition from self-reliance to spiritual reliance. Listeners will find that breaking this bondage requires more than mere attendance at meetings or theoretical knowledge of the Big Book; it demands rigorous, disciplined action. This includes the brutal honesty of the Fourth Step inventory to uncover selfishness and dishonesty, the active making of amends to mend fractured relationships, and a total reliance on a Higher Power. Listeners can expect to hear raw, personal accounts of the descent into self-obsession and the subsequent launch into recovery. The speakers emphasize that freedom is found through the paradox of letting go of the self to find a new way of living. These recordings detail the necessity of service and the ongoing maintenance of spiritual fitness to prevent a drift back into self-centeredness. By confronting the trickster of fear and the poison of resentment, these speakers illustrate that true sobriety is the result of an active, literature-based approach to dismantling the ego and embracing a life of humility and service.

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Joe C.
The Three Basic Instincts – Big Book Workshop – Part 5 of 8 – Joe C.
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Bob D.
Working With Others – D. and Chris S. – Big Book Workshop – Austin, TX – Part 9 of 10 – Bob D,Tom I
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Step 2 and Higher Power – The Big Book and Steps of AA – Part 2 of 3 – Local AA Speakers
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The Fifth Step and Its Promises – Big Book – Tim – Workshop – Neptune, NJ – Part 14 of 18 – Local AA Speakers
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The Bondage of Self – Big Book – Tim – Workshop – Neptune, NJ – Part 11 of 18 – Local AA Speakers
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Mark H.
The Fourth Column and Third Step Decision – Big Book Study – Austin – Part 2 of 2 – Mark H.
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Bob A.
Step 2 and the Open Mind – Women’s Book Study – Part 7 of 13 – Bob A.
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Bob A.
Bondage of Self and Character Building – Women’s Book Study – Part 6 of 13 – Bob A.
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John K.
Steps 3 and 4 – 2nd Annual Stay Sober for Keeps Workshop – Part 2 of 5 – 2012 – John K.
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Local AA Speakers
Step 3 – Joe and Charlie – Part 1 of 3 – 2021 – Local AA Speakers
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Chris S.
Steps 4 and 5 – Step-Tember to Remember Workshop – Part 5 of 7 – 2025 – Chris S.
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Cleo D.
Steps 8 and 9 – Step-Tember to Remember Workshop – Part 4 of 7 – 2025 – Cleo D.
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Audrey C.
Step 3 – Sponsorship and 12 Step Workshop – Part 1 of 7 – 2011 – Audrey C.
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Myers R.
Steps 1 and 3 – Chance for Change Workshop – Part 2 of 6 – 2008 – Myers R.
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Chris S.
Steps 1, 4, 6, 7 and 12 – Friday Night Recovery Workshop – Part 4 of 17 – 2021 – Chris S.
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Mark H.
Steps 1, 3, 4 and 5 – Mad Dog Recovery AA Speakers Workshop – Part 1 of 2 – 1997 – Mark H.
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Shannon B.
Steps 4 and 5 – Don’t Sweat the Summer Big Book Workshop – Part 3 of 6 – 2025 – Shannon B.
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Local AA Speakers
Sober for Keeps (5.5 Hours) – Part 2 of 3 – 2017 – Local AA Speakers
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Peter M.
Twelve Step Workshop – Part 4 of 6 – 2024 – Peter M.
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Peter M.
Twelve Step Workshop – Part 3 of 6 – 2024 – Peter M.
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David L.
The Bondage of Self and the Art of Being Fine – David L.
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Robbie W.
The Difference Between an Atheist and an Agnostic in AA – Robbie W.
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Bob L.
Why the Allergic Reaction to Alcohol Is the Only Litmus Test – Bob L.
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Kent C.
The Simplicity of Accessing the Power – Kent C.
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Clint H.
Why He Needed a New Experience of Higher Power – Clint H.
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