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Bondage of Self

The Bondage of Self is a critical concept in Alcoholics Anonymous, representing the internal prison of self-centeredness, fear, and ego that sustains the cycle of addiction. In these speaker tapes, the bondage of self is identified not merely as a symptom, but as the root cause of the alcoholic's suffering. It is the state of being trapped by one's own defective reasoning, resentment, and the illusion of control. The core principles discussed revolve around the transition from self-reliance to spiritual reliance. Listeners will find that breaking this bondage requires more than mere attendance at meetings or theoretical knowledge of the Big Book; it demands rigorous, disciplined action. This includes the brutal honesty of the Fourth Step inventory to uncover selfishness and dishonesty, the active making of amends to mend fractured relationships, and a total reliance on a Higher Power. Listeners can expect to hear raw, personal accounts of the descent into self-obsession and the subsequent launch into recovery. The speakers emphasize that freedom is found through the paradox of letting go of the self to find a new way of living. These recordings detail the necessity of service and the ongoing maintenance of spiritual fitness to prevent a drift back into self-centeredness. By confronting the trickster of fear and the poison of resentment, these speakers illustrate that true sobriety is the result of an active, literature-based approach to dismantling the ego and embracing a life of humility and service.

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Russell S.
Russell S. – The Bondage of Thinking About Yourself – 2025
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Russell S.
Russell S. – Defects – The Central Fact of a Higher Power-Centered Life – 2025
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Roger E.
Spiritual – Roger E. – 2006
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Myers R.
Steps 2 and 3 – Myers R. – FOTS Toronto – 2020
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Donna J.
Step 3 — Turning It Over – Donna J. – New England Big Book Workshop Weekend – 2020
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Chris S.
Step 2 — Came to Believe – Chris S. – FOTSNY – 2016
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Chris S.
Step 10 — Daily Inventory – Chris S. – FOTSNY – 2016
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Gary B.
Queens Big Book Study – Part 4 – Gary B. – 2008
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Mark H.
Steps 10 and 12 – Part 4 – Mark H. – FOTSNY – 2001
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Mark
Steps 10 and 12 – Part 5 – Mark – 2001
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Judy A.
Step 8 – Judy A. – Wilson House Big Book Workshop Retreat – 2020
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Judy L.
Step 6 – Judy L. – Big Book Workshop Retreat – 2020
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Chris A.
Springtime in the Ozarks Big Book Study – Part 2 – Chris S. and Charlie P. – Eureka Springs, AR – 2010
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Russell S.
The Alkie Dog Revisited – Step 1 – Russell S. – Fort Lauderdale Tuesday Night Step Group – 2025
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Russell S.
Session 1 – Russell S. – Simply the Steps Group – 2025
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BOB D.
Step 4 , Fear & Sex at Woodstock of AA, Cocoa Beach FL – Bob D.
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BOB D.
Step 4, Fear and Sex at the Woodstock of AA, Cocoa Beach – Bob D.
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Julie M.
Bill Says the Serenity Prayer Will Work — It Just Doesn’t Work for the First Three Months 😅
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Mary N.
Al-Anon Can Give You Detachment and Still Miss the Alcoholic in You
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Bob A.
Losing What You Have or Not Getting What You Deserve — the Two Fears Step 7 Names – Bob A.
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Bob
Daily Reprieve Means Right Now, Not Tomorrow’s Meditation or Next Week’s Meeting
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Mary N.
Every Fear I Had at 11 Years Old Was Still Running My Life at 50 — Until AA Showed Me the Bondage of Self – Mary N.
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Sandy B.
Every Spiritual Book He Read Was His Ego Building a Higher Wall Between Him and Higher Power – Sandy B.
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Sandy B.
Higher Power’s Will for You Is to Abandon Your Will — Yeah Cool, What Exactly Does That Involve?
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Sandy B.
Allow Everything to Be as It Is — the Assignment Nobody Wants and Everybody Needs – Sandy B.
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