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Bondage of Self

The Bondage of Self is a critical concept in Alcoholics Anonymous, representing the internal prison of self-centeredness, fear, and ego that sustains the cycle of addiction. In these speaker tapes, the bondage of self is identified not merely as a symptom, but as the root cause of the alcoholic's suffering. It is the state of being trapped by one's own defective reasoning, resentment, and the illusion of control. The core principles discussed revolve around the transition from self-reliance to spiritual reliance. Listeners will find that breaking this bondage requires more than mere attendance at meetings or theoretical knowledge of the Big Book; it demands rigorous, disciplined action. This includes the brutal honesty of the Fourth Step inventory to uncover selfishness and dishonesty, the active making of amends to mend fractured relationships, and a total reliance on a Higher Power. Listeners can expect to hear raw, personal accounts of the descent into self-obsession and the subsequent launch into recovery. The speakers emphasize that freedom is found through the paradox of letting go of the self to find a new way of living. These recordings detail the necessity of service and the ongoing maintenance of spiritual fitness to prevent a drift back into self-centeredness. By confronting the trickster of fear and the poison of resentment, these speakers illustrate that true sobriety is the result of an active, literature-based approach to dismantling the ego and embracing a life of humility and service.

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Babe K.
Step 7 and the Prayer to Be Relieved of the Bondage of Self – Babe K.
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John M.
The Bondage of Self and the Mirror He Couldn’t Look Into – John M.
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Tom B.
The Wall Between Me and the World – Tom B.
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Bill C.
The Psychic Change That Made the World Bearable – Bill C.
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Matthew M.
Matthew M. at the NW Woodstock of AA – 2016
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Bob
Trusting Higher Power in the Middle of Terrible Adversity – Bob
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Tom F.
Understanding the Illness of Alcoholism in the Inventory Process – Tom F.
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Jessie P.
Jessie P. at the 12 Steps and Buddhism Retreat – 2011
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Madeline H.
If That Works for You Literally Go On With Your Bad Self 😂 – Madeline H.
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Matthew M.
The Bondage of Self and the Unfettered Grace of Higher Power – Matthew M.
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Rory M.
The Bondage of Self and the Delusion of Managing Well – Rory M.
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Laura B.
Children of Alcoholics and the Concept of a Father Power – Laura B.
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Michael L.
The Fear of Being Ordinary – Michael L.
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Jessica S.
The Agnostic Experiment and the Contempt Prior to Investigation – Jessica S.
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Nancy C.
The Empty Page for Special Talents and Abilities – Nancy C.
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Jessie P.
How It Works and the Oneness of the Universe – Jessie P.
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Martha W.
The Bondage of Self and the Baptist Preacher’s Daughter – Martha W.
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Matthew M.
The Quiet Manipulation of the Ego – Matthew M.
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Teresa F.
The Inventory as a Tool to Get into the Now – Teresa F.
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Sara I.
Why Higher Power’s Will Sometimes Sucks – Sara I.
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Sandy B.
Sandy B. at the Far Corners Retreat – 2008
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Bob D.
Step 3 and the God He Was Afraid to Believe In – Bob D.
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Paul M.
The Holy Trinity of Me and the Prison of Ego – Paul M.
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Charlie P.
Charlie P. on the Hunger of the Ego and the Trap of Mental Obsession
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Paul M.
Paul M. at the Derelict’s Retreat – 2017
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