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Bondage of Self

The Bondage of Self is a critical concept in Alcoholics Anonymous, representing the internal prison of self-centeredness, fear, and ego that sustains the cycle of addiction. In these speaker tapes, the bondage of self is identified not merely as a symptom, but as the root cause of the alcoholic's suffering. It is the state of being trapped by one's own defective reasoning, resentment, and the illusion of control. The core principles discussed revolve around the transition from self-reliance to spiritual reliance. Listeners will find that breaking this bondage requires more than mere attendance at meetings or theoretical knowledge of the Big Book; it demands rigorous, disciplined action. This includes the brutal honesty of the Fourth Step inventory to uncover selfishness and dishonesty, the active making of amends to mend fractured relationships, and a total reliance on a Higher Power. Listeners can expect to hear raw, personal accounts of the descent into self-obsession and the subsequent launch into recovery. The speakers emphasize that freedom is found through the paradox of letting go of the self to find a new way of living. These recordings detail the necessity of service and the ongoing maintenance of spiritual fitness to prevent a drift back into self-centeredness. By confronting the trickster of fear and the poison of resentment, these speakers illustrate that true sobriety is the result of an active, literature-based approach to dismantling the ego and embracing a life of humility and service.

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Kerry C.
Her Friend Erica Gave a Full Funeral to a Mouse in a Mousetrap 🤣 – Kerry C.
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Matthew M.
The Bondage of Self and the Next Indicated Thing – Matthew M.
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Peter
The Internal Revolution That Replaced a Thinking Mind – Peter
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Wesley P.
The Vicious Circle of Complacency, Apathy, and Dependency – Wesley P.
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Bob
The Allergic Reaction That Only Occurs in Alcoholics – Bob
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Judith R.
The Radical Acceptance of Receiving the Self – Judith R.
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Tom B.
Step 1 and the Wall He Built to Protect Him from You – Tom B.
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Bob
The Allergic Reaction That Uses Your Own Mind Against You – Bob
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Katie P.
Step 10 Is a Spot Check Inventory Not an Evening Review – Katie P.
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Earl H.
The Powerlessness Explained in More About Alcoholism – Earl H.
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Scott L.
Step 11 and the Way He Stopped Thinking His Way Out of a Hole – Scott L.
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Judith R.
Increasing the Capacity to Hold Uncomfortable Feelings – Judith R.
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Charlie P.
Step 10 He Needs Daily to Stop the Chatter of a Thousand Monkeys – Charlie P.
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Myers R.
Why the Knowledge of the Text Is the Baseline – Myers R.
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Bob B.
The Spiritual Depression of Too Much Me – Bob B.
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Judith R.
Step 4 Through 9 and the Work of Breaking Up Karma – Judith R.
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Katie P.
Katie P. at the 22nd Spring Conf – 2026
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Judith R.
Letting Go of the Outcome and the End of the Movie – Judith R.
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Bill C.
The Doctor’s Opinion on the Alcoholic Life Seeming Normal – Bill C.
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Bill C.
Bill C. at the Cedar River Big Book Study – 2020
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Myers R.
Why the Big Book Says Selfishness Is the Root – Myers R.
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Jimmie R.
Prayer and Meditation – Big Book Comes Alive Workshop – Part 1 of 2 – Jimmie R.
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Bob
Working With Others and Bondage of Self – D. and Scott L. – AA Speakers – Amazing Big Book Step Study – Part 2 of 2 – Bob
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Bob
Self-Abandonment and Service – D. and Scott L. – AA Speakers – Amazing Big Book Step Study – Part 1 of 2 – Bob
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Clint H.
The Bondage of Self – 12 Step Workshop – Cortez, CO – Part 1 of 2 – Clint H.
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