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Amends

In Alcoholics Anonymous, the process of making amends is a critical pillar of long-term sobriety, representing the transition from the wreckage of active addiction to a life of integrity. As highlighted in these speaker tapes, amends are not merely apologies but are an essential part of the structured work of the 12 Steps. A core principle emphasized is the necessity of direct action; recovery requires that amends be made directly to the harmed party rather than through a proxy. Listeners will hear raw, honest accounts of the liar and cheat mentality and the humbling realization that self-will is bankrupt. These tapes detail the journey of confronting one's past and the courage required to face those who were wronged. By moving away from a need for external validation and attention, speakers describe how the act of making amends clears the path for true connection and service. Expect to hear narratives of profound personal wreckage—ranging from professional failures to broken family ties—and the spiritual liberation that comes from taking full accountability. Ultimately, these recordings illustrate that making amends is a vital step in transforming from a person of isolation into a useful member of society, ensuring that recovery remains a daily, active choice.

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Vannoy S.
Scars on My Heart from Motherhood That No Fifth Step Could Reach — Until Wednesday Night at Cowboy Church – Vannoy S.
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Matt J.
Prescribed Tedral at Seven — They Put a Wheezing Kid on Amphetamines and Called It Medicine – Matt J.
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Madeline P.
Physically Drunk but Never Mentally Drunk — Where an Alcoholic Woman Stops Being Able to Protect Herself – Madeline P.
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Teresa F.
You Are My Shadow and My Mirror — Every Bit of Growth Came from Women I Couldn’t Stand Being Around – Teresa F.
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Scott R.
Our Facility for a Bottom Is Absolutely Extraordinary — You Can Watch People Share Their Way Right Out the Door – Scott R.
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Ray M.
We Were a Loving Home When Everybody Was Asleep — the Family Disease Nobody Explains to You – Ray M.
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Polly P.
We Went to Find Our Inner Child and Discovered What We Desperately Need Is an Adult 😂 – Polly P.
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Mike S. and David M.
Trouble Making a Ninth Step Amend Means You’ve Got a Seventh Step Problem — You Just Don’t Want to Change
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Ken H.
Closed My Eyes to Meditate and Fell Asleep — Got in a Fight with My Nephew About Whether That Counts 😅 – Ken H.
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Robbie S.
The Difference Between AA Activities and Real Spiritual Action in Steps 10, 11, and 12 – Robbie S.
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Polly P.
The Spiritual Malady: Why No Amount of External Love Is Ever Enough – Polly P.
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Kim P.
You Cannot Save Your A*s and Your Face at the Same Time – Kim P.
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James T.
Step 1: I Am a Footwork Guy, I Am Not in Management – James T.
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Sheila A.
Ninety Days. Two Jobs. No Car. Pages 86 Through 88. – Sheila A.
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Matt J.
Art Cole Told Me It Sounds Like You Have a Problem With Living Matt – Matt J.
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Jack B.
Ten Cents Worth of the Program Is All Most of Us Ever Ask For – Jack B.
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Pat Y.
Willingness as the Thing That Overrules Your Own Judgment When Your Judgment Is the Problem
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Keith L.
You Can Do Anything as a Member of Alcoholics Anonymous If You Prepare Properly – Keith L.
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Joe C.
I Ain’t Got the Luxury of Resentments and I Ain’t Got the Luxury of Rationalizing
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Doug M.
My Relationship With Higher Power Cannot Be Taken From Me but I Can Give It Away – Doug M.
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Dick A.
The Twelve Traditions Are the Principles for Living With Other People and Nobody Told Me That for Twelve Years – Dick A.
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David B.
My Sponsor Put His Foot on My Throat in the Front Yard and Said Good That’s Step 1 – David B.
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Bob O.
Tell Them the Worst Stuff First So You Can Have Fun With Your Fifth Step – Bob O.
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Bart R.
The Consequences Are Not the Bottom — The Bottom Is Admitting You Have No Power – Bart R.
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Bob D.
The Ism Is the I — I Separate Myself and Call It Being Different – Bob D.
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