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Anger

In the context of Alcoholics Anonymous, anger is rarely viewed as a standalone emotion, but rather as a symptom of deeper spiritual misalignment. These speaker tapes illustrate that anger, rage, and resentment often stem from a combination of self-deception, a profound sense of betrayal, and the exhausting attempt to control life through self-will. For many, anger serves as a mask or a performance designed to protect a fragile ego or elicit specific reactions from others. The core principles discussed across these recordings center on the necessity of surrender and the reduction of self-centeredness. Listeners will encounter the idea that anger is fueled by an egomaniacal desire to run the show, and that lasting peace is only found by relinquishing this control to a Higher Power. The tapes emphasize that recovery requires a humbling willingness to examine one's character defects, often through the painstaking work of the Sixth and Seventh Steps, to remove the burdens of rage and self-righteousness. Listeners can expect raw, personal accounts of how a dreadful temper and self-righteous anger led to isolation and failure. The speakers share their journeys from the misuse of willpower to the embrace of humility and service. From guided meditations on healing to candid discussions on the struggle with a Higher Power, these tapes provide a comprehensive look at how the alcoholic transforms destructive anger into a useful, humble life of recovery.

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Amy D.
Amy D. at the FOTS Toronto Step 11 Speaker Series – 2022
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Janet S.
Janet S. – The 12 Steps – The Root of Self-Centered Fear – 2014
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SANDY B.
At Gulf Shores – Sandy B.
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Ajit
I Married My Psychiatrist Which Isn’t a Terribly Smart Thing to Do 🤣 – Ajit
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Kelly T.
Took Direction From a Higher Power Instead of My Own Plans and the Anger Just Evaporated – Kelly T.
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Kim A.
Family of Origin Sent Me Walking for Beer Before I Could Read the Label – Kim A.
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Pearce M.
Most of My Life When I Stood in Front of a Podium with a Tie on I Was Called Defendant 🤣
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Yvonne H.
Picked the Dalai Lama as My Higher Power Until Someone Asked What I’d Do When He Dies 🤦 – Yvonne H.
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Frank W.
Newcomers Aren’t Reading the Big Book — They’re Reading the Room – Frank W.
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Bob A.
Losing What You Have or Not Getting What You Deserve — the Two Fears Step 7 Names – Bob A.
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Justin
Sponsored Myself for a While and Turns Out I Had an Idiot for a Sponsor 🤣 – Justin
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Amy O.
My Grandmother Poured My First Drink at Nine — Family of Origin Did the Rest – Amy O.
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M.
Admitting I Was Whipped Was the Richest Resource I Had to Work With
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Permelia H.
Emotional Sobriety Means Thinking About My Thinking Not About the Drinking
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Matt J.
Change Your Actions and Your Attitude Will Change — Art Cole Had It Backwards from Every Teacher – Matt J.
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Ed M.
299 People in the Room Told Me I Was the Best — Guess Which One I Remembered – Ed M.
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Erin S.
Contempt Prior to Investigation Nearly Cost Me the Best Thing in Sobriety – Erin S.
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Carlos S.
Children of Alcoholics Repeat What They Swore They’d Never Become – Carlos S.
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Bob B.
Dog Turds Wrapped in Gold Tinfoil — That’s What We Call Our Worst Defects and We Guard Them Like Treasures 🤣 – Bob B.
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Jay P.
Our Courtship Was 20 Minutes — Alcoholics Take a Long Time with Heavy Decisions 😂 – Jay P.
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Stevie B.
No Amount of Sober Time Clears Away What Only Steps 4 Through 7 Can Remove – Stevie B.
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Bill D.
Tenth Step Is the Cheat Sheet to the Fourth — Four Defects, Three Instincts, Seven Sheets of Paper – Bill D.
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Allie M.
57 Resentments and Not One of Them Was Alcohol — Everything I Blamed Was a Person – Allie M.
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Marshall S.
Step 4 Without the Fourth Column — Eight Years of Pointing Out What Everyone Else Did Wrong – Marshall S.
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Kenny T.
Fourth Step Workshop Showed My Deepest Resentment Wasn’t My Wife or Sponsor — It Was Higher Power – Kenny T.
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