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Bondage of Self

The Bondage of Self is a critical concept in Alcoholics Anonymous, representing the internal prison of self-centeredness, fear, and ego that sustains the cycle of addiction. In these speaker tapes, the bondage of self is identified not merely as a symptom, but as the root cause of the alcoholic's suffering. It is the state of being trapped by one's own defective reasoning, resentment, and the illusion of control. The core principles discussed revolve around the transition from self-reliance to spiritual reliance. Listeners will find that breaking this bondage requires more than mere attendance at meetings or theoretical knowledge of the Big Book; it demands rigorous, disciplined action. This includes the brutal honesty of the Fourth Step inventory to uncover selfishness and dishonesty, the active making of amends to mend fractured relationships, and a total reliance on a Higher Power. Listeners can expect to hear raw, personal accounts of the descent into self-obsession and the subsequent launch into recovery. The speakers emphasize that freedom is found through the paradox of letting go of the self to find a new way of living. These recordings detail the necessity of service and the ongoing maintenance of spiritual fitness to prevent a drift back into self-centeredness. By confronting the trickster of fear and the poison of resentment, these speakers illustrate that true sobriety is the result of an active, literature-based approach to dismantling the ego and embracing a life of humility and service.

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Clancy I.
If I’m an Alcoholic, My Problem Cannot Be Alcohol – Clancy I.
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Doug R.
Six Readings of Chapter Four and Still Bargaining Against Surrender – Doug R.
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Jerry J.
A Trial Lawyer Cross-Examines the Twelve Steps and Finds Them Airtight – Jerry J.
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Charlie C.
Alcohol Gave Me the Satisfaction of a Job Well Done Without Having to Do a Da*n Thing – Charlie C.
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Bish M.
Get Big Enough to Get Little Enough to Surrender — That Is the Paradox of the First Step – Bish M.
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Chuck C.
“I Am a Failure and It Makes Absolutely No Ripple in My Serenity” – Chuck C.
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Blind Dave A.
The Picture Puzzle Analogy: Unless You See the Whole Picture You Will Never Properly Connect the Steps – Blind Dave A.
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Bob D.
A Priest Who Prayed All Day Could Not Get What the Bums in AA Had – Bob D.
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Joe H.
Ten Treatment Centers Never Revealed the Spiritual Malady – Joe H.
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Peter M.
“The Thinking Mind Throws a Party Every Night With Ego as the DJ” – Peter M.
★★★★★3(2 votes)
Peter M.
The Mental Obsession, the Physical Allergy, and the Malady That Drives Both – Peter M.
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Peter M.
“My Sex Inventory Was in Tiny Handwriting, Everything Else in Capitals” – Peter M.
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Mark H.
They Tricked Me: I Came for Alcohol but the Problem Was Me – Mark H.
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Russell S.
“The Fact That You Like It Indicates to Me It’s Probably Wrong” – Russell S.
★★★★1(1 vote)
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