Why Everything Comes Full Circle in Sobriety – Ann P.

About This Speaker Tape

A public bus, the back seat, and the sudden, jarring realization that her legs are filled with cigarette butts, burned-out matches, and scraps of paper. For Ann P., this was the snap—the ego deflation that finally broke the cycle. She describes a life of wreckage: three divorces, the loss of her child to a cruel ex-husband, and a desperate pursuit of glamour that led her from Arthur Murray dancing to the deserts of Arabia and the heat of Somaliland.

She recalls the grit of her bottom, from safety-pinning her clothes together to the disorientation of twenty-one electric shock treatments. Through the lens of a Higher Power, she views her 28 years of sobriety as a series of full circles, where the bitterness of the past is replaced by the ability to laugh at the "human cross badger" she once was. From the darkness of a mental ward to the light of recovery, she found that the most humiliating experiences were the ones that finally saved her.

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• 0:45 Ann P. discusses her childhood in the South and the pressure to be a 'poetess' or nutritionist.
• 4:12 The first shot of straight whiskey and the feeling of finally being 'comfortable'.
• 8:30 Laughter: The 'Let the Pupil Dance Alone' dancing method.
• 11:15 The experience of receiving 21 electric shock treatments to 'knock the bad thoughts out'.
• 16:40 The 'confidential' nature of drinking with a stranger in an Arabian cafe.
• 21:10 Teaching English to Somali students and the 'Magnolia Blossom' accent.
• 28:50 The 'human cross badger' epiphany on the bus and the decision to get sober.
• 33:15 Discussion of the Big Book and the act of ripping Chapter 5 out of the book in anger.
• 36:20 The tragedy of her first husband's suicide and the gratitude for her own sobriety.
• 39:45 The 'full circle' encounter with her ex-husband Richard in Florida.
• 43:10 The lesson of the lunar eclipse in Africa and the return of the light.