Step 11 and the Plan for the Day That Leaves No Room for a Relapse – Tim M.

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Step 11 & Step 12 - 2021

Tim M. dismantles the trap of 'spiritual graduation,' where recovery is traded for exotic retreats or metaphysical loops that lead straight back to the bottle. He argues that Step 11 isn't about transcendental bliss or 'blissing out,' but is a practical tool for overriding the ego to get direct concrete guidance. Tim maps out a rigorous daily routine for sponsees: a night-before review focused on corrective measures rather than a rehash of old grievances and a morning plan so tight that 'you couldn't squeeze a cigarette paper' into the gaps. He warns against becoming a 'papal' authority figure and instead advocates for a network of support to prevent the sponsee from treating the sponsor as a confessional for 'insincere sincerity' before slipping again. The goal is to move from the internal drama of the ego to the active service of Step 12.

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Timestamps

• 0:00 Opening reading from 'A Vision for You' regarding the relationship with a Higher Power.
• 2:15 Tim discusses the tragedy of those who 'graduate' from the program into spiritual paths only to relapse.
• 7:40 Discussion on the practical nature of Step 11: praying only for knowledge of a Higher Power's will and the power to carry it out.
• 14:20 Tim explains his method of giving newcomers a strict daily program including morning planning and evening reviews.
• 18:10 Laughter: The story of the sponsee in New York seeking a 'papal blessing' from his sponsor.
• 25:30 Tim warns against the 'wheelbarrow full of material'—getting stuck in the content of resentments rather than corrective measures.
• 32:10 Analysis of 'insincere sincerity' and the cycle of the 'spree' mentioned in the Doctor's Opinion.
• 41:00 Q&A: Tim uses the 'Karen' metaphor to describe demanding direct guidance from the Higher Power.
• 52:15 Discussion on the 'manifesting' trend and the danger of using spirituality to secure material 'goodies' like Ferraris.
• 58:40 Tim's take on 'Big Bookie' recovery and the risks of radically relabeling the Steps.