Ray O. on the Steps, the Oxford Group, and Carl Jung — Part 1

About This Speaker Tape

Manchester, Vermont, before the first war. A collection of drunks—Bill, Ebby, and the wealthy Roland Hazard—drifted through the foothills of the Green Mountains, bound by a shared wreckage. Ray O. recounts the gritty lineage of the program, from Roland Hazard’s desperation in Switzerland to Carl Jung’s bleak prognosis: go mad or die. Jung’s solution was a rare religious transformation, leading Roland to the Oxford Group and their "four absolutes."

Ray, a former law professor and judge, strips away the polish. He describes alcoholics as people "born not feeling good," for whom booze is the glue holding them together. He frames the first step not as a struggle with a bottle, but as a fight against powerlessness caused by a separation from a Higher Power. From bathtub gin in New York to the "crap hole" of Akron, Ohio, Ray emphasizes that the message is gold, even if the messenger is a screwball. He warns against "half measures," recalling his own brother who died the hard way.

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• 0:45 Ray O. introduces himself and his sobriety date of November 24, 1965.
• 3:15 Discussion of the Oxford Group and the 'four absolutes' of honesty, unselfishness, purity, and love.
• 7:40 The story of Ebby T. and the 'bird shat upon the paint' incident.
• 12:10 Bill W.'s spiritual experience in Towns Hospital and the concept of 'willingness to believe'.
• 16:45 Ray discusses the 'spiritus contra spiritum' pun and the attack on the spirit.
• 21:30 The meeting between Bill W. and Dr. Bob S. in Akron, Ohio.
• 27:15 Ray shares the story of his brother Billy's death from alcoholism.
• 32:40 Ray describes his career as a law professor and his subsequent resignation for drinking.
• 38:10 The 'switch' metaphor: the power of the meeting as the source of sobriety.
• 44:20 Ray's experience with the 'terror' of 4:00 AM alcoholism.
• 48:50 Dismantling the Third Step: the difference between giving up a life and asking for 'care'.
• 51:10 Laughter: Ray leads the room in the Third Step Prayer.