He Wanted to Be a St. Louis Cardinal But He Was an Alcoholic – Johnny H.

About This Speaker Tape

A fruit jar of whiskey on a grandfather's back porch. That single drink triggered a "murderless obsession" for Johnny H., a man who spent his youth drifting through reform schools, nuthouses, and maximum security cells. He describes a life of "mire and muck," where he was a "taker" and a "user of people" with an ego larger than the room. The wreckage peaked under a tree at his 17-year-old brother's gravesite, standing handcuffed between two detectives while his mother looked at him with hate and disgust.

Johnny recalls sitting in a penitentiary meeting, hiding behind sunglasses and a popped collar to protect his "hip" image, mocking the "lame suckers" who found hope. The shift came when a fellow inmate told him he didn't have to live that way. Through a Higher Power and the "firm, loving hands" of sponsors, Johnny moved from a state of "undrunkenness" to actual sobriety. He traded the macho mask for the privilege of being just like everyone else.

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• 0:00 Johnny H. opens by discussing the privilege of participating in the fellowship.
• 4:15 Laughter: Discussion on Prozac and the 'hush' it brings over the crowd.
• 8:30 Johnny H. describes his childhood and the sanity he saw in his grandmother.
• 14:20 Detailed account of the 'phenomenon of craving' and the physical allergy.
• 22:10 The trauma of his baby brother's overdose and the look of hate from his mother.
• 31:45 Recounting his first AA meeting in the penitentiary and his initial contempt for the 'lame suckers'.
• 42:10 The pivotal moment of the Fifth Step and the freedom that followed.
• 55:20 The tragedy of his mother drinking herself to death while he remained sober.
• 1:05:15 Critique of 'psychobabble' and the importance of the Big Book over therapy.
• 1:18:40 Stories about his sponsor Norm A. and the 'hard way' vs. the 'easy way'.
• 1:32:10 The danger of the 'spiritual growth' trap and the loss of a friend to heroin.
• 1:45:00 Closing reflections on the legacy of his sponsors and his love for the fellowship.