Chris P. at the Nosara Big Book Workshop – 2025

About This Speaker Tape

Thirteen years old, cutting school, and pouring three water glasses of Four Roses whiskey. While his friends hit a wall and stopped, Chris P. felt the "genetic bullet" of craving ignite. He didn't just drink; he finished the bottle and crashed into his first blackout. For Chris, alcohol wasn't just a poison; it was a vacation from the "pitiful and incomprehensible demoralization" of being himself. He describes a life spent in a bedroom, drinking for oblivion to escape a chronic state of restlessness and irritability that made him want to slash the tires of anyone slow in a checkout line.

He views the alcoholic as an "unresolved mystic" desperately seeking a connection to the divine through a bottle. Now, he warns that the ego always minimizes the wreckage. He insists on a brutal, accurate appraisal of Step One, treating it as the only springboard to a solution. Without a Higher Power and a rigorous spiritual discipline, he knows he'd be back to a .38 caliber handgun cocked to his h...

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Timestamps

• 2:15 Discussion on 'reverse bragging' and the scale of alcoholism.
• 6:40 Story of first drink at age 13 with a quart of Four Roses whiskey.
• 9:10 The 'papaya' metaphor regarding the physical allergy to alcohol.
• 13:20 Description of the 'restless, irritable, and discontented' state of mind.
• 17:45 The 'dark vision' and mentions of suicidal ideation with a .38 caliber handgun.
• 21:10 The 'unresolved mystic' theory and the search for the divine.
• 26:30 Chris P.'s approach to Big Book workshops and his 400-600 reads of the text.
• 31:15 Advice to sponsors on the importance of a rigorous Step One for newcomers.