Tom B. Jr. - Emotional Sobriety & Perfectionism (very solid message)

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Tom B (link)

(268 votes)

Speaker Tape Tagged With:emotional sobriety perfectionism self-centeredness self-will

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64 Comments

DianeM on March 31, 2020 at 5:22 pm

Yes he has issues with homosexuals and Jewish people, and God knows what else. More importantly, listen to the message: take what you need and leave the rest. He’s absolutely right about emotional sobriety.

Paul co on September 14, 2020 at 5:55 pm

You can make a joke without having issues about the subject. It’s called humor… grow up.
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The Gay Blade on October 27, 2020 at 4:17 am

Grow up dummy
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Paula M on February 22, 2020 at 9:14 pm

Having real trouble getting any tapes to play currently, is there a problem with the website?

Bill on February 25, 2020 at 5:37 am

Same thing here.
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J. R. G. on June 21, 2019 at 9:27 am

I found the homophobic denigration and jokes about being Gay at the beginning to be rather off putting. Love and tolerance is not this man’s code.

Quantineequa Jackson on December 17, 2019 at 2:30 pm

I found them hilarious and wished he made even more jokes about it. It’s an abomination and may those guilty be forever casted into purgatory.
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- Rich on March 13, 2020 at 7:37 pm
  
  I’ll pray for you
  #falseGod
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MARC on March 17, 2020 at 5:03 am

I agree with you.
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Paul C on September 14, 2020 at 3:01 pm

They were jokes, get over yourself
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Anonymous on September 14, 2020 at 3:09 pm

Because of a joke? What a judgmental idiot you are
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Linda W on May 9, 2019 at 9:01 pm

Great message on the reminder that old timers are in need of support at times in their life. We sometimes feel we should have arrived and there is something wrong if we get emotionally unstable. Remember us!

Tricia on March 24, 2019 at 3:23 pm

The message was great. It was hard to listen to the whispering.

Willy b on January 26, 2019 at 7:31 am

Russell Spatz is the ? bomb

Alissa F. on December 8, 2018 at 12:21 am

This was the best thing I ever listened to. Every person alive should listen and do every word Tom B. Says. He is truly amazing and I feel blessed to be understood so well for the first time. Thank you, Tom. You changed me.

Caroline on November 30, 2018 at 8:44 am

Excellent share, real and honest.

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DianeM on March 31, 2020 at 5:22 pm

Yes he has issues with homosexuals and Jewish people, and God knows what else. More importantly, listen to the message: take what you need and leave the rest. He’s absolutely right about emotional sobriety.
- Paul co on September 14, 2020 at 5:55 pm
  
  You can make a joke without having issues about the subject. It’s called humor… grow up.
- The Gay Blade on October 27, 2020 at 4:17 am
  
  Grow up dummy
Paula M on February 22, 2020 at 9:14 pm

Having real trouble getting any tapes to play currently, is there a problem with the website?
- Bill on February 25, 2020 at 5:37 am
  
  Same thing here.
J. R. G. on June 21, 2019 at 9:27 am

I found the homophobic denigration and jokes about being Gay at the beginning to be rather off putting. Love and tolerance is not this man’s code.
- Quantineequa Jackson on December 17, 2019 at 2:30 pm
  
  I found them hilarious and wished he made even more jokes about it. It’s an abomination and may those guilty be forever casted into purgatory.
  - Rich on March 13, 2020 at 7:37 pm
    
    I’ll pray for you
    #falseGod
- MARC on March 17, 2020 at 5:03 am
  
  I agree with you.
- Paul C on September 14, 2020 at 3:01 pm
  
  They were jokes, get over yourself
- Anonymous on September 14, 2020 at 3:09 pm
  
  Because of a joke? What a judgmental idiot you are
Linda W on May 9, 2019 at 9:01 pm

Great message on the reminder that old timers are in need of support at times in their life. We sometimes feel we should have arrived and there is something wrong if we get emotionally unstable. Remember us!
Tricia on March 24, 2019 at 3:23 pm

The message was great. It was hard to listen to the whispering.
Willy b on January 26, 2019 at 7:31 am

Russell Spatz is the ? bomb
Alissa F. on December 8, 2018 at 12:21 am

This was the best thing I ever listened to. Every person alive should listen and do every word Tom B. Says. He is truly amazing and I feel blessed to be understood so well for the first time. Thank you, Tom. You changed me.
Caroline on November 30, 2018 at 8:44 am

Excellent share, real and honest.

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Tom B. Jr. – Emotional Sobriety & Perfectionism (very solid message)